Tips On How To Handle Difficult and Hard To Understand Clients

Hi Se7en. I’ve been reading your blogs, and I need your advice. I’ve encountered two types of clients, and I’m having a hard time dealing with them. One is the always-angry type, and the other is difficult to understand because he talks too fast. I am a first-time freelancer, and I don’t know how to handle these types of clients. Help me please. – Arjit

How do you deal with an angry-sounding client?

For anyone with call center experience, this is part of the new hire training. After months of talking to customers, understanding a client becomes second nature; this could be difficult if you’re a first-time freelancer with no experience rephrasing and checking for understanding. But don’t worry; I’ve got you covered.

The first thing you need to understand when talking to a customer is they have two kinds of needs:

  1. The Emotional Need

Customers must express their feelings. Their most common emotions include happiness, anger, frustration, and sadness. Because they had to put in a lot of effort to use or enjoy the product or service, the customer is emotionally invested in it. Customers want to express their emotions to others to feel fulfilled and satisfied with themselves. To successfully deal with any customer, any CSR (or, in your case, a freelancer) must first acknowledge the emotional need; this is where EMPATHY comes in.

What is EMPATHY in customer service?

Merriam-Webster defines empathy as “the action or capacity of understanding and expressing the state of mind of another.” When confronted with this situation, the CSR or freelancer should put themselves in their customer’s shoes; this is where EMPATHY comes in.

Examples of situations requiring empathy:

Customer: “My husband just died, and I’m still grieving. I can’t deal with all the business letters right now. I’m looking for a freelancer who can respond to all these business emails.”

Freelancer: “I’m deeply saddened to hear about your loss. I can only imagine what you’re going through right now, but don’t worry, I’m here to help, and I’ll handle your business correspondence while you go through the difficult grieving process..”

Customer: “I am furious right now. I have been calling your customer service hotline because we have an emergency, and I needed your help to restore my service.”

CSR: “Mr. Johnson, please accept my apologies for the inconvenience. I’d be upset too if I was in an emergency and couldn’t reach the people who should be assisting me. But I’m here now, and I’ll be happy to help you with your problem..”

When talking to a client, it is necessary to address the emotional need of the customer first, for two reasons:

(1) If you fail to acknowledge the emotional need (via an emphatic statement), it will come up again and again in the latter part of the conversation, and it will impact the efficiency of your issue resolution.

(2) When you connect with your customer on their level by addressing their emotional need first, you sound more human.

In the call center industry, customer service representatives are given the training and coaching to handle these situations. Some centers include this as part of their scorecard. If a CSR fails to acknowledge the customer’s emotional need with an emphatic response, they are invited for a one-on-one coaching session and possibly a demerit. Regardless of how harsh this may sound, you must understand that using emphatic statements is a VERY USEFUL TOOL when speaking with a customer. Why? Because it effectively addresses the customer’s emotional need, you, the CSR or Freelancer, can get right to work without interruption.

  1. The Business need

The easiest part is addressing the business need; you have the tools and training for this, and most of the time, the problem is simple to resolve. The customer’s business requirements will be determined by the product or service you or your company provides.

Here are some examples:

  • The customer would like assistance in extending their current contract
    • Obtaining a new product or service
    • Reporting an outage
    • They have a few issues preventing them from fully utilizing the benefits of the product or service they purchased.
    • Buyer’s remorse or dissatisfaction

What can you do if the client is hard to understand?

It is often difficult for clients to speak slower and more clearly, partly due to habit and partly because they believe they are speaking clearly and that you understand them; this can happen when they are rushed or don’t know how to communicate effectively with their words.

Here are five tried-and-true methods for ensuring that your client’s instructions are completely understood:

  1. Request that your client speaks more slowly. If necessary, apologize for the inconvenience and inform the client that you are documenting the instruction and ensuring that nothing is missed to meet or exceed expectations.
  2. When the client pauses to check for understanding, restate what they said based on how you understood it; this is an excellent opportunity to determine whether you genuinely understood the instruction and for the client to correct you if you did not.
  3. Record the conversation. This is a simple but effective method because it allows you to go over the instructions again. Before you press the record button, make sure you have permission from the client.
  4. Use phrases such as “I apologize for missing that. Please repeat that.” You can also say, “Your audio is coming in and going out. I didn’t catch the last bit.” You can also be truthful and say, “You were speaking too quickly. Could you please repeat the last part? Thank you very much.”
  5. If at all possible, discuss the instruction via video call. This way, the client sees you and can tell you have a question based on your reaction or facial expression.

Allow me to address another critical issue that many freelancers find intimidating: being truthful with the client. Being honest with the client can be challenging at times because we are afraid of being criticized, ridiculed, rejected, or judged as “slow-witted”; this insecurity can harm our professional image. Remember that you are in a professional relationship with your client, and they expect you to listen, understand, and ask questions. They are not in a  business relationship with you to mock you. However, suppose you fail to ask relevant questions because you are afraid, and you end up with the incorrect or low-quality output. In that case, you will not only irritate the client for wasting their time and money, but you will also lose them, and they will leave you a negative rating and review.

Communication is essential. Aside from the issues mentioned above, you should openly communicate any issues or concerns with your client as a freelancer. However, avoid bombarding your client with questions every hour. The best way to approach the numerous problems is to collect and document them first, then request a meeting (alternatively, email it to them); this should give the client time to address the issues you encountered while working on the project.

Here is my final piece of advice. Never start a project if anything is unclear, from the contract, the fee, the work instructions, or the expected output; you must communicate these concerns before you begin, all for the sake of clarity and professionalism. I’ve always believed in “doing the right thing the first time,” and this is where paraphrasing and asking relevant or clarifying questions come in handy.

Thank you for reading my blogs, Arjit, and I hope I was able to assist you.


How to Deal with BURNOUT as a Freelancer

Freelancers are constantly on the go, and it can get exhausting; this is why they should learn to avoid Burnout.

There are many ways to stay healthy as a freelancer, but the most important thing is to take a break. It’s not uncommon for freelancers to work up to 12 hours a day for days on end without any time off, leading to Burnout.

Working without breaks is common for many people nowadays. We think that if we work long hours, we’ll get more done, but in reality, it has the opposite effect. Besides being a risk to our productivity, working without any breaks can also risk our health.

What is Burnout?

Burnout is a general feeling of exhaustion, in which one has lost the ability to complete their work. It often feels like you’re in an endless loop of tasks and deadlines with no end in sight.

Freelancers are more likely to experience Burnout than people who work for an organization because they often work for multiple clients simultaneously and with no breaks in between. Their income is inconsistent, and they have to deal with more stress than people in the 9-5 workforce.

Freelancers also have less support than employees do from managers or colleagues. They might feel like their job is not fulfilling all aspects of themselves, and they may lose focus on other areas of life that bring them happiness.

How to lessen Burnout when you are freelancing

Many factors can lead to Burnout. Common causes of freelancer burnout include lack of opportunity for growth, staying in the same place for too long, and not having enough control over your work.

A mismatch between what you imagine freelancing to be and what it is, or what your expectations are, and the reality of working as a work-from-home freelancer, can cause Burnout.

There are many ways to lessen the chances of Burnout when you are freelancing. One way is by continuing to learn new skills and continually learning about new skills, which will help you stay motivated over time because you’ll never feel that you have mastered your craft.

3 Ways to Prevent Burnout as a Freelancer

If you spend most of your waking hours working on your projects or other people’s projects, and you’re in a less-than-ideal work environment, expect Burnout to happen sooner than later. Here are three ways to prevent that from happening:

1) Set boundaries – Freelancers should set boundaries for themselves and stick to them. It is essential to take breaks from working and not feel like you have to do it all. Make sure that you are taking care of your physical health and mental health by eating well, exercising, and sleeping enough.

2) Get social support – Freelances need a support system that takes care of their emotional needs and gives them business advice and the possibility of collaborating on specific projects. Although collaborating simultaneously on different projects might sound like an added workload, often it can have refreshing effects and help us avoid a feeling of Burnout.

How to Deal With Burnout If You’ve Already Got It

Burnout is a natural response to prolonged periods of stress triggered by an imbalance between the demands and resources that a person has in their life.

It is essential not to ignore Burnout if you are experiencing it. The more it gets worse, the more severe it will become. It would help if you tried to find ways to cope with your work and take some time off for yourself.

Focus on things that make you happy, whether hobbies or relationships with family and friends; this will help you balance your life and regain control of it again.

Here are some things that you can do to avoid Burnout:

1. Determine the root cause of the burnout and take steps to prevent it from happening again.

Burnout is a complex condition that has many causes. It can result from stress, prolonged emotional or physical exertion, a feeling of profound personal failure or inadequacy, lack of support from colleagues or family and friends, too many demands on time and energy, or a sense of alienation.

There are some questions you can ask yourself to do this:

-Do I have too much work/too many tasks?

-Is my workload too challenging?

-Do I feel like I’m not good enough at my job?

-Do I have a poor work/life balance?

-Am I working on projects that are outside my area of expertise?

As soon as you can identify the root cause of the issue, it will be easier to find a solution and deal with the problem.

2. When you’re tired of doing the same thing over and over, add some variety to your work routine.

It can be hard to change or switch up your work routine when you feel exhausted from doing the same thing repeatedly. Here is my advice: Do something different. Change up your work routine when you are feeling exhausted from doing the same thing over and over again. Relocate or rearrange your work area now and then.

You can try taking a break for lunch or coffee breaks, occasionally take your dog on a walk, or take on tasks that are entirely different from what you typically do.

3. Make the most of your downtime by focusing on self-care activities such as hobbies, socializing, or meditating.

You stare at the screens for hours on end. We don’t have much physical or mental space to do anything else. That’s why we need to take some time off from our work and focus on self-care activities like hobbies, socializing, or meditating.

The benefits of these activities are immense. They can help us relax and release the tension we feel in our muscles and minds. They can also provide us with a creative boost to return to work with a fresh perspective.

4. When all else fails, seek the assistance of a professional therapist or coach.

In extreme cases, there may be a need to seek professional help. When an individual is experiencing overwhelming feelings of distress and danger, they might require immediate intervention. With a therapist or coach’s expertise and guidance, people can start taking steps to feel safe again. Professional mental health practitioners will often work with the person to develop coping strategies in their everyday lives.

In extreme cases where people suffer from debilitating depression, suicidal thoughts, or other symptoms that interfere with their daily lives, they may need professional psychiatric treatment.

After finishing this article, I suggest you stand up, take a break, and do something else.

Seriously. Take a break.